Solomon Buchi, a renowned Nigerian public speaker and life coach, recently shared his advice for men who may not be financially well-off, suggesting that they should not let their financial situation prevent them from pursuing marriage. He expressed this viewpoint through a tweet posted on Tuesday.

In emphasizing his perspective, Buchi emphasized that while money is important in marriage, it is not the sole requirement. He highlighted the significance of having a partner who understands the unpredictable nature of life, including the possibility of facing financial setbacks and losing everything. Buchi shared a personal anecdote to illustrate his point, recounting the experience of his younger sister and her husband. At the time of their marriage, his friend was flourishing in his career at ExxonMobil, but due to the COVID-19 pandemic, he was unexpectedly laid off just six months into their union. Buchi acknowledged that many men desire to establish a strong financial foundation before getting married, but he emphasized that it is not the only crucial factor.

The essential requirement is to have a partner who comprehends the possibility of losing everything and remains supportive throughout. A flourishing marriage is built on mutual understanding and contentment, where both individuals are committed to holding each other together regardless of the circumstances. This level of connection and security forms the true foundation of control in a relationship.

He further expressed, "Gentlemen, money should never be an obstacle to getting married. It simply shouldn't. I acknowledge the societal expectations and pressures, but there's no guarantee that the wealth you strive to accumulate won't vanish. Life is unpredictable, and it is crucial to have a woman who will stand by your side when life throws its challenges at you."

"I am confident that if my brother-in-law had foreseen losing his job just six months into his marriage, he might have postponed getting married until he regained employment last year. Don't allow the aspiration of amassing a substantial amount of money to hinder you from entering into marriage."