Renowned relationship coach Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo, founder of Love, Dating and Marriage, has challenged singer 2face Idibia's assertion that men are inherently wired to cheat. During an episode of the Netflix reality show "Young, Rich, and Famous," 2face had claimed that men have a natural inclination to stray, stating, "Men are wired like that. A man will love a woman to the extreme, but suddenly his desires may lead him astray."
In response to 2face's claim, the pastor took to Twitter and expressed his disagreement, stating, "No man is inherently wired to cheat; don't believe that deceitful notion." However, he acknowledged that men may be more susceptible to sexual temptation compared to women, although he also acknowledged that women can experience temptation as well.
The sexual tendencies of men are notably distinct from those of women, and there are several factors that contribute to this differentiation.
#1 Men exhibit a greater level of sexual desire compared to women, primarily due to the higher concentration of testosterone, the primary sex hormone in males.
#2 Men are capable of engaging in sexual activities without necessarily forming an emotional connection, which is one reason why prostitution is predominantly supported by men.
#3 Men are highly responsive to visual stimuli, making them particularly susceptible to daily temptations due to the constant exposure to explicit visual content in today's society.
Nonetheless, it is crucial to emphasize that none of these factors serve as justifications for infidelity or causing harm to someone you profess to love. The key to handling such temptations lies in exercising self-control, relying on the grace of God. As stated in Proverbs 25:28 (MSG), "A person without self-control is like a house with its doors and windows knocked out," highlighting the importance of maintaining self-discipline in resisting such urges.
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