A US-based Nigeria pastor, Shola Adeoye, has revealed that Africa women are subjected to abused unknowingly, and this leads women to depression.

Pastor Adeoye in a video he shared online, explained that many men, in the name of providing, abandon their wives to care for their children alone for months on end while the men are out making money. 

Adeoye's words, "Sometimes we men are selfish and we don't look at the big picture," 

He added that when men are out there looking for money the women are "stuck" taking care of the kids alone "24/7" to the point where they no longer have a life outside the home. 

According to him, after a while, the women becomes depressed and the men never notice due to their focus on making money.

He added that when the children are now grown and are off to college and the woman wants to finally live for herself, the man start seeing the woman as "arrogant". 

The video caption, "Some African women have been abused unknowingly," 

“Women get stuck with the kids while men walk freely in the name of providing. Mentally women are drained. It's unhealthy for anybody to live the kind of life they are subjected to.”